We learned how to spot different sorts of narcissists so far. We’ve also created blog posts for each of them.
Today, let’s do something different – learn what feelings not to show to them, so they can continue manipulating, using, or hurting you.
- Fear. They just feed on it. They want to believe others fear them, yet deep inside they know how empty they are.
- Desperation. Don’t be their puppet – therefore, being desperate is not acceptable.
- Hurt. It validates their power, at least in their head.
- Jealosy. Jealosy is a favorite game of a narcissist. Don’t play it.
- Helplesness. This can invite domination, which they won’t miss taking.
- Over-explaining. Signals weakness – no, you don’t have to over-explain yourself. It’s important that you know your part of the story.
- Rage. They’ll flip it and blame it on you. Narcissists always play this game – try to drive you to madness with a purpose to get any reaction from you.
- Attachment. They weaponize it.
What’s the best way to act? Of course, it’s staying calm, neutral, and keeping your energy unbothered. Learn how to control your behavior in conflict here.
