Today, I’ve decided to create a list about all the ways trauma can look like when it ”decides” to stay in your body for quite a while. This is what I could think of from my experience and from talking to others who went through various sorts of trauma.
- Increased heart rate. This happens because your body feels like it’s in a constant fight or flight mode. You can read this text to realize the differences between anxiety and panic attack.
- Fatigue that won’t go away even when you rest. Chronic fatigue is truly common within trauma and sometimes even the simplest daily tasks can look like a burden.
- Self-harm. It can be an active sort of self-harm or it can look like a slow & silent suicide.
- Dissociation. You don’t feel like belonging in the present moment or cannot find your place in life in general.
- Skin picking or nail biting even in adults. Nervous habits are often seen in adults, too. Leg tapping counts as well.
- Muscle tension. It can be your shoulders, your jaw, or even in your legs, stopping you from walking normally and naturally.
- Loss of appetite. Food doesn’t taste as it used to.
- Headaches. All sorts of headaches, but mostly migraines and those related to TMD.
- Exessive sweating. This can again be related to anxiety or your body remembering a trauma and staying in a fight mode for too long.
- Stomach issues. It can be irritable bowel syndrom or anything else, such as increased production of stomach acid.
- Unexplained pains in some parts of your body. I remember those as quick and sharp pains that would come out of nowhere, usually on my arms or legs.
- Spontaneous crying or quick tears. You are on the edge and can burts into tears anytime, or you completely stopped crying.
- Binge eating. Overeating with a purpose to feel that void inside yourself.
- Insomnia or oversleeping. We already covered these 2 topics on our website, which you can find more about here – insomnia / oversleeping.
- Quick and shallow breathing. Try breathing from your stomach instead of from your lungs. It may take some time to practice but this helps a lot.
- Being startled easily. Everything annoys you quickly and you cannot control your reactions all the time.
- Increased stress hormones. Cortisol is high, causing many other physical and mental issues. I will write a separate blog post about this.
- Poor immune system. You get sick quickly and often.


