If a lot of things hurt your feelings, it’s time to remind yourself that truly it’s not all and everything about you, meant for you, or to hurt you. Yet, there are evil people who will try to bring you down, and that’s why I’ve made a reminder about the things you should never take personally:
- People’s actions reflect them, not you.
- Not everyone will like you and that’s amazing. This means that you have stood up for yourself and that you are not pretending, but living your authentic self.
- You can observe negativity, but you don’t have to absorb it. You are not responsible for carrying the problems and weight of all people on your shoulders.
- Criticism often comes from their insecurities.
- What Susie says of Sally, says more of Susie than of Sally. As said above – when it comes to narcissists, it’s literally a confession what they would do.
- Let things go to protect your peace and well-being. The reason why you shouldn’t hold on to something negative, even if it hurt you, is because your peace is more valuable.
- Don’t take the moods of others personally.
