Grieving journey carries a lot of loneliness with itself, but if you work on yourself and search towards enlightenment and self improvement, you’ll find solitude.
The difference between loneliness and solitude is that in solitude you love to be alone – and that’s probably when you are the happiest from now on…
Take a look around yourself and tell me what do you see? As an introvert, you’ll easily notice that this society glorifies extroversion in too many ways.
The importance of social circles is inevitable, but are they really helpful to you, or you are a servant to them?
If you’ve developed a lone wolf personality, this means that you have learned how to walk your own life path, finding strength and comfort in solitude – but also working on self-improvement.
The name of this personality comes from the story of wolves who sometimes break away from the pack to live or hunt independently.
How to know if you are a lone wolf? If you find yourself in these sentences, it seems like you are belonging to ”our pack”:
- Lone wolfs value independence in the deepest ways. This may come from the fact that you’ve realized no one helped you when you needed them, so you’ve learn to count on yourself only and to stand brave in front of all life problems.
2. When spending time alone, you 100% enjoy your own company and feel recharged. Having fun alone is amazing – not many can do it. Lone wolfs don’t need an audience to see their value.
3. You like one-on-one interactions with meaningful people and other lone wolfs. Often, you won’t even have to talk, just enjoy company and silence, or do some things together.
4. Popular opinion doesn’t influence you anymore. You’ve learned to follow your intuition completely and to rely on it.
5. Deep thinking about life. Bigger life questions and mysteries are what you love to think or daydream about.
Lone wolfs have learned to be very selective with their relationships and don’t like to spread their energy for nothing. What we prefer in people is always authenticity.
A person with a lone wolf personality type also has very strong personal values. You are guided by your own moral compass and won’t go against it even when someone puts a huge pressure on your.
Lone wolfs are the ones who can easily notice the details many others will miss – and we will remember them. We are observes of life.
Lone wolfs are not antisocial, as those who don’t know us may think. We do love company, but it has to be valuable. We pursue personal passions without needing constant validation.
The world needs more lone wolves than social butterflies.
Don’t forget – even lone wolves need a kindred spirit (or two) along the way. As a bereaved parent, you’ll probably meet them on your grieving journey…
